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However, there is an understanding that being violent is unacceptable in and of. With Sexual Orientation OCD, the sufferer generally does not see anything wrong with being gay per se, as long as it is not themselves being gay. This causes a lot of confusion and a lot of resistance to seeking treatment. Homosexual and bisexual individuals with OCD can, and do, sometimes obsess about being straight.

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A male sufferer might notice an attractive male, Grannies seeking looking for date then chastise himself for being able to notice attractiveness in males. This is sometimes more triggering than exposure to gay pornography. It also may involve avoidance of assertive behavior or any other cultural attribute traditionally associated with masculinity.

Yet the HOCD sufferer is going to compulsively check and analyze sensations for evidence of homosexuality.

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Those without obsessive-compulsive tendencies allow themselves to enjoy this aspect of their reality. These are people who prefer sexual activity with the opposite sex, but also find same-sex fantasies and even behaviors to be somewhat intriguing and arousing.

They are not bisexuals, who would likely say they are quite capable of sexual and romantic fulfillment with either sex, but are instead heterosexuals who simply are not dangling off either edge of the Kinsey scale. For those people who experience themselves as somewhere within this spectrum of sexuality, but also have HOCD, this can be very upsetting.

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People who suffer from OCD, regardless of the manifestation, are struggling against an intolerance for uncertainty. People without OCD largely tolerate uncertainty by not paying much attention to it.

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This may involve seeking treatment from LGBT specialists, trying to train themselves to enjoy gay pornography and sometimes engaging in sexual experimentation. Typically this backfires in one of two ways. Either the person finds the experience somewhat satisfactory but not Intimate relationship Melville Los Angeles to straight sex, or they find the experience abhorrent and resent themselves for having done it.

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In the next installment of this series, we will examine some additional nuances to HOCD and common impediments to effective treatment. To take our free confidential HOCD test. To read part one in our series of articles on HOCD. To read part two in our series of articles on HOCD.

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