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The section entitled The Existence of Racial Profiling has a more detailed discussion of the specific importance of good community and police relations, based on the experiences of various jurisdictions in the United States. However, racial profiling seriously erodes public confidence in these institutions. Numerous submissions described an increased personal or community mistrust of law enforcement officials, the criminal justice system, the education system, customs officials, store and mall security and society in general.

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Turn to them when you are in trouble. One very moving submission came from a young school teacher who described being surrounded by police cars, being ordered out of his car in the middle of the street and being asked if he had any drugs or weapons in the car.

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Scholars argue that unexpected discrimination is more stressful Cooper et al. More obviously, youths who have been taught prescriptions for coping with racist discrimination might handle these experiences more effectively Hughes et al.

In the only study to directly examine ERS and styles of coping with discrimination, Scott found that among black adolescents, preparation for bias directly increased the use of adaptive coping strategies, such as social-support seeking and problem-solving, and indirectly augmented perceived control over discrimination experiences. At least two studies have examined the protective or buffering effects of preparation for bias. More recently, Harris-Britt and Lady want sex Pocono Pines found that preparation for bias buffered the effect of discrimination on lower self-esteem.

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Hypothesis 6a: Preparation for bias reduces the effects of discrimination on depression, hostile views, and disengagement from conventional norms.

We further expect that preparation for bias will reduce the likelihood that these intervening mechanisms will lead to crime when they do develop through its effects on coping. For example, family members may encourage youths to seek out supportive others to deal with depressive symptoms or suggest ways to respond to discrimination proactively and prosocially. This suggests the following: Hypothesis 6b: Preparation for Adult wants sex CA Corning 96021 reduces the effects of depression, hostile views, and disengagement from conventional norms on crime.

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