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Our marriage is wonderful in every way — except that for most of the last 19 years, she has not been interested in sex.
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Am I just playing with fire? Story continues below advertisement The answer: I'm stumped — and saddened by your question. As a single girl, your long, happy marriage is something I envy.
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I wish you could tell me the passion is still burning hot. But because the embers have died down, my knee-jerk reaction is, "Yes, go have your sex!
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My advice — call me a prude — is to direct your energy toward your wife, not your extracurricular aspirations. Let's get this out of the way though: never, ever — ever!
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My other caveat is that I don't believe your wife is giving you this "green light. She may have said it — but her language choices, to "get it out of your system" leaves me to believe.
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And why have you only been talking for hours in the last few weeks — instead of the last 19 years?
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Stephen de Wit, who says he's coached many couples through successful "consensual non-monogamous" relationships.
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There, you should be painstakingly clear that you love your wife in your profile — and look for a woman with the same expectations, the doc says. I'm still wildly uncomfortable with this — go make sex better with your wife, I say — but Dr.
De Wit says indeed that I'm a prude. I groan through most of his sexologist speak — "we've been programmed to think of sex as 3-D — dirty, dangerous, and degrading" — but then he says something enlightening that I'll leave you to ponder.
After, Horny single women in Milesburg Pennsylvania course, you've really tried to make sex better with your wife.